Showing posts with label minimalist mindset. Show all posts
Showing posts with label minimalist mindset. Show all posts

Monday, February 21, 2011

Beliefs

What do you believe? This is an important question but one that few ever consider. Instead, they just accept what is given to them as if it is law. Sadly, society has a way of misleading people into doing things that make them unhappy.

Blind Faith

Many engage in blind faith. I feel dogma is dogma no matter who is issuing it. Many will swallow all the rules that others put forth without even a thought if it makes sense. The religions of the world have survived based upon this ideal for centuries. Of course, the governments of the world are no different. Blind adherence to any type of dogma is dangerous.

Those who cannot think for themselves are bound to live as slaves. We see people do destructive things all the time in the name of faith. Take the suicide bombers. Here is a group of people who are willing to blow themselves up for a cause which promises eternal happiness. Perhaps they do receive the eternal life they are seeking. However, is it worth end one's life here on a supposition? Obviously not.

Question

The solution to this ailment is to question all that you believe. Why do you think the way that you do? Is it because you consciously chose a particular path or is it because someone taught you this was 'correct'? This process is crucial to breaking the stranglehold that others have upon you.

Beliefs lie at the center of all we do. To not question our beliefs is to engage in a life that is not our own. Under these circumstances we are at the folly of others. As shown, society has a way of injecting into us what we should believe. Those who stray from the norm are ostracized in ways designed to bring them back in line. This conditioning starts as a child and lasts throughout our entire lives. The key is to stop it as soon as you are aware of what is occurring. Now is the time for you.

Freedom is something that everyone should value. Sadly, few do. Become one of the elite in terms of taking over your own life. Living according to the edicts of others is slavery. Most everyone we encounter is a slave. This is the opportunity for you. Being different is a way to break free from the norm. All cultures love those who excel. Following the traditional dogma will result in mediocrity. Jump start your life by questioning all that is going on.
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Sunday, February 6, 2011

Societal Slavery

Have you ever considered all the different ways that society enslaves people? If you spend some time thinking about the average person's week (or you own), you will see exactly how people are controlled by others. Freedom is something that most people give away without nary a thought. To them, the decision about what is in front of them is much more important that the long-term affects. Sadly, this is what leads to lifelong imprisonment.

Out of School and Free

For most of us, the time where we have the most freedom is immediately after getting out of school. We spent fours years getting a diploma and suddenly we are done. Now we have 365 degrees of possibilities ahead of us. We can go in any direction. Few have anything tying them down geographically. They can live anywhere they desire. Family is not part of the equation for most people at this point, thus, free from the burden of spouses or children. Of course, this does not last.

People would be much better off if they were conditioned to maintain this state. The truth is that we are taught to go in the opposite direction. Debt is something that is commonplace within our culture. Why pay for it when you can charge it? That is the mindset of the last two generations. The entire economic collapse was a result of massive overspending at all levels. Yet few seem to learn the lessons being offered. Fortunately, for those of us who do, it is an opportunity that hasn't existed in 60 years. We are witnessing a culture change whether people realize it or not.

Job

You boss is one of the most powerful jailers in your life. When you consider what you do for a few measly dollars each week, it is truly criminal. Of course, each one of us does it willingly and without hesitation. There is not a single person who signs a 'slavery clause' in any employment contract. Instead, we make choices the necessitate showing up each day to earn that paycheck.

Why do I start with the job as the jailer? The answer is because most people hate their job. Monday is the national day of mourning each week. Few wake up on that day excited they are going to work. Studies show that it is the day that is most people call in sick.

And why is the job able to exert this much influence over the average person? Again, we see the answer in the behaviors of people. The truth is that people's spending drives them to live for their creditors. People do not profit from their work lives but, rather, the companies these people do business with are the beneficiaries.

Keeping Up With Others

I guess we can consider it human nature to want what others have. We see this in children. They often mention the desire to have something because 'Jimmy's mom bought him one'. Of course, we know the absurdity of this conduct in children.

Or do we? It is ironic to see this same behavior in adults. The truth is that most are immature when it comes to this outlook. A large percentage of our population believes that what other think is important. This causes them to take many actions which are destructive to them. It is a battle that is waged endlessly without a winner. Actually, cancel that. The winner is every company that promotes their product in this matter.

We see people assume large monthly car payments so they can drive an expensive foreign automobile. These same people were also caught in McMansions taking on mortgages they could not afford. Designer labels are purchased no because of the value in terms of quality provide as much as the name recognition. Therefore, we create an endless loop of having to work to substantiate our spending.

Beliefs

Ultimately, it all comes down to what we believe. However, this is another area where many get themselves in trouble. Few have ever considered what they believe and why. Instead, the blindly accepted the dogma that society delivers. Whatever those in power are selling, we are buying.

The idea that the opinions of others means something is a belief that most are attune to. They never get past the notion that it is up to us to judge our own lives. The thoughts other others, especially those we do not know, are meaningless. Adopting this outlook is a powerful step on the road to freedom. Remember, this entire concept starts in the mind.

Analyzing what we think and we is one of the methods of breaking free from societies chains. It is of paramount importance to consider that most of what we were taught was done with the intention of enslaving us. Sure, the people who offered these lessons were well-meaning people. However, we must hold in our minds that they were most likely slaves also.

Society teaches obedience. Those in power truly do not want people to express their individual choice. This applies at ever level of the spectrum. The 'rule makers' do all they can to get people to follow blindly along. Insane amounts of money are spent on items that offer little to no value yet the masses are caught up in the hysteria (the Cabbage Patch craze comes to mind). Each decision that is made, if not moving towards the path of freedom is enslaving one deeper. And this is exactly what society wants.

If you want to live freely, you are going to have to go counter to what the norm is. Start your journey today.

Friday, February 4, 2011

It All Ends Up In The Sewer

This is a simple idea so I will be brief today. Have you ever considered the difference between spending $10 on dinner and $20? The truth is that both dishes end up in the same place...in the sewer. Therefore, what is the real difference?

Sure there are some places that will give you a terrific meal. However, what is one really paying for when dining out. The meal is often not much different from place to place. What varies is the ambiance, service, and reputation of a particular place. All of these are factored into the price. Ultimately, people pay for the experience which might not be worth it.

I find that eating out is something that is a treat. Nevertheless, my goal is to do this as inexpensively as possible. The reason is simple: within a day or so all the food is gone. It is out of my system and no longer a benefit to me. While I will acknowledge there are times to pay more, the type of places I am frequenting will not amount to much in terms of quality. It basically is the same. Thus, if I can get away for as inexpensive as possible, I will do that.

Does this seem miserly to you? Perhaps it is. Yet, frugal is the path to success. Those who spend $18 a plate on dinner are really no further along than the person who spends $8. The only difference, after 48 hours, is the $10 missing from one's debit account. Everything else was in the sewer.

Remember this little tidbit the next time you are going out to eat. It is the experience that is important. However, instead of spending extra on the ambiance, make the person (people) you are with the focus of the experience. It is much more beneficial and will help your charge card.

Saturday, January 22, 2011

Life Makeover

There is a popular show on television (or was since I don't have television anymore) called Home Makeover. The premise of the show was that a crew of people went into a home and redid an entire house in a matter of days. It was interesting to see how something went from entirely rundown to a masterpiece in less than a week. Of course, it helped that experts and a large sum of money were available. Nevertheless, the outcome was that the entire situation was changed quickly.

Life Makeover

The truth is that most people could use a 'life makeover'. When you look at how most people are living, it is tragic. We live in a world (at least in the Western culture) where opportunities and freedoms should be prevalent. Yet, it seems that most suffer under the plight of slavery. No matter how much money they earn, they are still indebted to someone else. Basic decisions seem to be made by others in an effort to keep up. Many work, as an example, just to pay the bills. Their entire careers are spent to do nothing more than 'make ends meet'. Life doesn't have to be this way.

Another simply fact is that people are horrifically overweight. Why do I mention this point? My reasoning is because this is something that almost everyone can do something about in light of what the consequences are. The medical community does not keep it a secret of what awaits someone who carries an extra 50 or 100 pounds around. Diabetes, heart disease, and death are all part of the equation.

Health and finances are two areas that we all should focus our attention upon. These are the aspects where one can instantly begin a 'life makeover'. Of course to do this, one needs to alter his or her thinking. Fortunately, this is something that can also be done in an instant. Just like with the television program, you life can be radically different in under a week.

Mental Makeover

I write a great deal about the importance of mindset in all we do. Out of our thoughts spring all action. Action is the bridge between the invisible world (our mind) and the physical world. Everything you see around you started as a thought. Most, however, use their thoughts negatively as opposed for positive gain. For example, they think about that ice cream sundae with extra whipped cream and syrup. As a thought, this hold no destructive power. Sadly, most succumb to it and end up ingesting the sundae.

A minimalist mindset is a terrific way for everyone to begin this makeover. I find that few are in a situation where they have 'too little stuff'. Instead, most are at the other end: they simply have too much crap. Going through and eliminating all the excess from their life is an effective beginning. Many need a course in the difference between wants and needs but those who are honest realize that they don't need most of what they think they do. You can survive without cable television (and that $70 a month bill). I am living proof of that.

Looking at the world differently is what is required. Most believe what they were taught. And what was that? Topics such as material wealth is what determines a person's value were drilled into us. We are concerned about the opinions of others because that is what we were taught. Dogma is swallowed without questioning because to do so would be heresy. The truth is your life is too precious to waste by being under the rule of others. Blind faith is what causes people to blow themselves up for an idea. We saw this in WWII with the Japanese fighter pilots and we see it today with suicide bombers. While most will acknowledge the flaw in this thinking, few really ever question their own.

Understanding that it is our thinking that creates our successes and failures is the fundamental premise behind this change. In short, it requires us to admit that we look at things improperly. Society will allow us to cut ourselves slack and achieve less than is possible. The reasoning is the world loves mediocrity. Everything is done in a way to tear you down. Success is for the strong; the weak succumb to the intentions of others.

Become the Minority

The minority in our culture is not based upon race, creed, ethnicity, or religion. Instead, the minority are those who are willing to go against the mainstream thought and reach out for the ideal that is offered. In my viewpoint, the one thing I think people need to focus upon is freedom. There is no honor in being enslaved against your will. Ignorance is another thing that should not be held in virtue. The fact that most are completely asleep in their lives is no excuse. I am here to start the revolution that wakes people up. Do I think that most will? Absolutely not. However, I am seeking out the few who have the mental strength to break free from the chains of bondage placed upon them by society. I want to find the minority.

Few people are willing to engage in this level of internal search. That is why most blindly follow the path laid out for them by others. It is easier to remain part of the masses as opposed to stepping out on their own. Strength is not the average person's strong point. That is why they are called sheep (flock is another word). Living contrary to what is commonly accepted is not on the agenda.

The world is in need of people who are opposite this ilk. A life makeover entails understanding that you can make a difference and that big things are possible. Everyone seeks harmony while succumbing to the desires of the powerful. They look to organizations or institutions which enslave them. Obedience is the calling of the day. My idea is different. I believe what is needed is people who are willing to alter their lives individually. The status quo no longer works. Life is full of plenty of bloodsuckers. It is time to cast them off. Individual power, when coupled with others, has the ability to ascend all ladders of society. It is now time to focus upon our own life and let others fend for themselves. Time is too valuable to waste upon the ingrates we encounter on a daily basis.

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Thinking Differently


There is a saying 'if you want to get the results others get, do what they do". While this is true, there is a point that this outlook misses. The truth is that the only reason we do what others do is because we think the way they do. Therefore, if you want what others have, model your thinking after theirs.

Of course, this brings me to the point that I feel encompasses most of society: few pay attention to what they think about. Instead, they default to a particular mindset that was created by the environment they grew up in. This is where the term 'group think' comes from. People of the same ilk tend to think the same.

When it comes to freedom, my belief is that we need to think differently than the average person. The reason why I say this is because most people are woefully unhappy with their present state of affairs. They live existences that are mired in average. Exceptional, intoxicating, or motivating are not terms applied to how they live. Instead, because of the decisions that are made on a daily basis, people end up being slaves. They allow society to take over without a fight. The indoctrination process ensures that submission is almost completed by the time one reaches adulthood.

If you are going to continue to think in the same manner as everyone else, then you are assured of following in this same pattern. Strategic rebellion is always a good thing. Of course, the word strategic guarantees that we are not rebelling just to rebel. That is a childish approach. This method means that someone actively looks at what society promotes and consciously decides what applies. In each instance, one needs to ask, is this belief helping or hindering my life? The answer dictates whether that belief remains or is removed.

I write often about the importance of thinking. There is nothing more crucial than taking control of your mindset. It is the one factor, if selected, that you can control in all instances. Considering freedom in everything you do is a route that few take. Most never consider the impact of present decisions on future freedom. For example, when one buys a car, he or she usually looks at the monthly payment as to whether it is affordable. Rarely does one take the time to really consider how this decision will affect future freedom. A monthly expense compounded over a number of years equates to a big loss. The opportunity cost of the car is high when compared to investing that money at an average return.

Understanding the mistaken thinking that the average person presents on a daily basis is vital in our pursuit of total freedom. Over the next few posts I am going to spell out some how this appears. Beginning the process in our mind will ensure success. Remember, it isn't the actions of others that we are concerned with but, rather, the thinking behind it.

Saturday, January 15, 2011

1000%

This is a concept that makes so much sense but is rarely applied in most people's lives. Looking around at the way the average person approaches his or her life, it is easy to realize that most operate on only a few percent. What do I mean by this? Basically, those who live exceptional lives approach everything with 1000% effort. They give all they have to the task they are confronted with.

Getting Results

One of the major factors in determining the results we get is the energy which we approach a particular task. Those who are able to summon the motivation to give all effort attain a greater degree of success than those who do not. This is an idea that has been around for ages. Those who give it their all achieve more. It is that simple.

Of course, I am preaching to the choir since everyone experiences this in life to one degree or another. Have you ever noticed how effortless it is to be totally committed to a task when it is something that you love? There are times when we have 1000% effort and are completely focused upon what we are doing. During those intervals, we experience a greater degree of success and happiness. Some people call it being in the zone.

However, success in life is not determined by how well we do those things that we love. The truth is that the level of achievement we attain is a direct result of how well we do those things that we dislike. Life mandates that we engage in certain activities which are not pleasurable in our eyes. Paying bills is something that comes to mind. Nevertheless, this is something that all of us have to do. Approaching this task in a lethargic manner will result in us making mistakes. It also indicates how we engage in the other tasks in life that we detest. Operating at 1000% means that we approach everything with the greatest amount of energy and enthusiasm we can muster.

Getting results sometimes means getting past the 'chores' in our lives as quickly as we can. It also means that we do them to the best of our ability. Certainly many of these tasks are not life and death. But as I said, they are an indicator of our overall outlook.

Go As Far As Possible

Most people settle in life. They adopt the outlook of a slave because society establishes it. People follow the edicts of our culture by believing in what is promoted. We enslave ourselves financially with our purchasing decisions. Career paths are followed even though they are detested for fear of changing. People spend their lives married to a man or woman they dislike simply because dogma says to split is a sin. The bottom line is that living exceptionally is not in the plans for most people. Instead, they opt to sacrifice their freedom in every manner.

A 1000% mindset means that all is going to be attained. We live in a world where you have 360 degrees of possibilities. You can do whatever you want. When you adopt the principles that I write about here and seek to implement them with all the effort you can muster, you will see far different outcomes. The world literally can become your oyster.

I often write about the importance of having the minimalist mindset. Here is an example of how you can do something at 1000%. Approach the stuff in your life with the outlook that you are going to declutter to the max. Get rid of all the excess you can with the knowledge that this is one major step to your living a free life. Seek to control your spending by only purchasing that which is truly needed. Seek the least expensive approach to those things that you do require while saving the excess. Start studying, learning, and implementing ideas for investing to enable your money to grow. Find those things in your life that are enslaving you and eliminate them immediately. A change in outlook is often all that is required.

Quantify

The idea is to quantify your level of effort and motivation. While doing this in every situation is a bit neurotic, the point is to start to focusing on increasing your level as you approach things. Of course, statistically speaking we knowing that 100% effort is the maximum. Thus, 1000% is unrealistic. I use this number to emphasize going all out in everything.

Which brings up the next hindrance: we know that 100% effort in all we do is not feasible. There simply are times when we are tired, frustrated, or bored. It is these moments that a system to quantify our efforts is helpful. If, for example, we are approaching something that will we give 10% effort to, is it possible to go to 20%? Notice how we didn't move to 100% but, rather, simply tried to double our efforts. Certainly giving 1/5 of our abilities is not something that is too out of line. This is something that most of us can handle in every situation, wouldn't you agree?

Since we believe this is possible, recognize the happened. We just doubled the amount of effort and motivation we normally had. How do you think this will affect our results? I tend to believe, that over the long haul, we will attain a better outcome because of this. That is how powerful a quantifying system can be.

Therefore, whatever you are doing from now on, simply ask yourself what level am I at presently. Determine a number and seek to improve on it. If you find you are at 30%, seek out ways to make it 40% or 50%. Any increase will result in a more positive outcome for that particular task. However, the big payoff comes when you develop the habit of continually raising your life to another level. This is where you start move from the average life to the exceptional.

Begin using this tactic today.

Monday, January 10, 2011

Entitlement Mindset


Have you ever noticed that people walking around today feel they are entitled to have certain things? It is almost as if they believe it is their birthright to enjoy some of the finer things in life. The fact that they cannot comfortably afford them is irrelevant. What matters is they are able to purchase the product because doing without is unfathomable to them.

Debt: Fuels Consummerism

People can afford to buy what they cannot afford. This is something that the last couple of generations have experienced. Being able to pay for something is no longer a barrier to 'owning' that product. Instant gratification is provided by walking out of the store with the item...today. Saving up to make the purchase seems to have drifted the way of the rotary phone (some of you might need to look that up in a search engine). It is an archaic concept that is in need of restoration.

Debt is the engine that fuels most people's spending. The reason why people can afford what they cannot afford is because someone is willing to underwrite it. Credit card companies are the most common ally in this effort. They give consumers billions of dollars each year in 'free' money. Enter into a store and walk out with a product even if you find yourself a few hundred dollars short. Just charge it. Plastic allows us to stretch out our dollars.

This phenomenon has done something to us as a society in general. Basically, it allowed us to enjoy a standard of living that is higher than we could afford. If you look at the average household debt, you will realize there were tens of thousands of dollars worth of products and services received which never should have been purchased. People simply overextended. Yet, when they are told, they get belligerent about it. Money, in particular their spending, is a touchy subject.

Entitlement Mentality

Our culture is infected with the mindset that says 'I deserve'. Again, the idea of being able to afford is of little issue. Most are conditioned to go into debt to buy those items which provide instant gratification. As long as you can afford the monthly payment, all is well. Thus, one believes he or she is entitled to a new car every couple of years. Big screen televisions and $400 cell phones...add it to the list. I want it therefore I should have it. No longer are the 'toys' in life reserved for the affluent.

It is a well known fact that the poverty stricken areas are filled with Xboxes, Ipads, laptop computers, big screen t.vs, and $150 sneakers. These are items which should be out of reach for people who are in this financial situation. But not here. People believe that it is their given right to have the things that everyone else does. If someone else can afford, then I should have it too. And this is why so many live in slavery.

I recently saw an article where a woman was upset because an organization that she went to for assistance with her power bill was not offering help due to budgetary cutbacks. This woman's story appeared on the front page of the newspaper. She was one who was employed so she had money coming in. This is not a woman who sat around all day abusing drugs and alcohol.

You would think this is a woman who needs legitimate help. Well, I am certain she could not pay her power bill. However, I do not believe she is a victim of circumstances. The reason is what appeared in the background of the picture of her. Directly behind her was an Xbox hooked up to a big screen television. Of course, this situation is compounded by having a stack of games that run $50 apiece. Thus, I conclude this person is not a victim since she was receiving monthly help with her electric. She is one who simply opted to spend her resources on luxuries as opposed to the necessity.

This is what I mean about entitlement mentality. People feel they should have the things about the basic necessities even if it means sacrificing them. Here is a women who couldnt pay the electric yet had money for luxuries. She, and more accurately her children, felt entitled to the games. The idea of not being able to afford them never entered the equation. Of course, this lesson is being taught to her children too.

This practice is not limited to the poor. At every level of the financial spectrum people are impoverishing themselves with their choices. This woman chose to spend it on games and other entertainment; the middle class leases automobiles they cannot afford; the upper middle class buys a McMansion. Regardless of the dollar amounts, the truth is that overspending as a result of entitlement mentality is a quick path to slavery.

The Solution

People need to break free from this mindset. Freedom is not made up of entitlement. The truth is that we leave this planet with exactly what we came in with: nothing. However, for the time we are here, we make choices as to how we live our lives. If you feel entitled to something that you cannot afford, you are positioning yourself to having to work for your creditor. That is slavery. Freedom means being able to live your life as you see fit. Most people spend their entire lives working and have little to nothing to show for it at the end. They followed the dogma society spelled out only to find it wasnt true. Sadly, this realization comes to late.

Freedom means knowing that you do not need 'things' to establish your worth. Living within one's means is about enjoying the comforts of life without having to overextend yourself. When people overextend, whether it is personal, a business, or a government, bad things happen. It usually is only a matter of time before the house of cards come tumbling down. Being entitled and being free are at completely different ends of the spectrum. Most of society feels entitled, thus they are not free.

Sunday, January 2, 2011

Freedom Realized

A couple of weeks back I wrote an article about physical freedom. In this I mentioned how important being physically mobile is. I noticed that I was out of shape which hindered my freedom. My lack of stamina in walking meant there were things that I could not do.

One of the activities was walking a trail at a local park in our area. This trail is 3 miles in length through preserved area. It really is a nice walk but one that does require a bit of stamina.

Since I wrote the article about the physical freedom, I have walked everyday (but one when I was physically ill fending off a cold). My efforts were concentrated upon building up my stamina by walking for between 40-60 minutes. I also was able to stretch the distance to 2.5 miles.

I am happy to report that I was able to walk the entire trail today without stopping. The 3 mile trek was complete in under 1.5 hours. While the weather was questionable early, it turned out to be a lovely day. While on the trail, another goal was set....to be able to do it twice. We decided that it would be nice to bring a lunch down there and perhaps walk the trail on each side of a meal. This makes for an inexpensive day which provides wonderful benefit.

By the way, the total cost today was a couple of gallons of gasoline. This is in keeping with my goal of having experiences without tremendous expense.

Monday, December 27, 2010

Freedom From Procrastination

Here is a universal truth: No success is every achieved without action. This is a statement that needs to be implanted firmly in your mind. Too many seem to believe that success is a matter of luck. However, few realize the action that is required to get to the point where 'luck' occurs. There is an old saying that holds true: the harder I work, the luckier I get.

The Archenemy

Do you know what the archenemy of success is? The title of this blog post ought to give it away. Procrastination will never lead to success. In fact, this single trait does more to destroy one's chance of advancement than any other quality. Procrastination is cunning and powerful. Most who are afflicted with this disease are rarely aware that it exists.

Success is a result of action. Usually, it is continuous action extended over a long period of time. Procrastination is the archenemy of this because it breeds the exact opposite. The result of procrastination is inactivity. Naturally, as is seen, procrastination, by its very definition cannot create success.

3 Ways To Overcome Procrastination

1. Make a list:

Many procrastinate because they do not know what to do next. A list is a helpful way to create a 'blueprint' for the action taken. Unlike some of the 'experts' who write on this subject, I find that the best list is the simplest. Instead of trying to determine the most 'important' activities (also called 'large stones'), just write down 5 things that you need to do. Then start doing them.

To show how simple the list can be, here is what I wrote that I need to get done this evening:

-walk, workout, stretch, write blog post, and shave head

The first few items were completed without waste. My tendency to procrastinate was removed since I know what the next action is.

2. Give yourself a deadline

Many believe that the operate better under pressure. While I am not here to debate that point, I will state there is plenty of research to the contrary. Nevertheless, if you are one who is convinced you excel only when getting close to 'crunch time', then I suggest you set a deadline for whatever you are faced with. For example, if you use the aforementioned list, give yourself until 8:00 PM to complete it. Instead of allowing circumstances to dictate what you do, create the 'pressure' yourself.

3. Tell someone else

Accountability is something that we all need. Sadly, most of us fail at holding ourselves accountable. My own personal experience is that we will let ourselves off the hook by buying into the excuses we create. These excuses are the rationalizations that we use to uphold our inactivity.

Involving another person helps us to create that accountability. Thus, if you are faced with something that requires action, tell someone what needs doing and when you will complete it by. Insist that person check up on you to make sure you did what was intended (this might require some explaining but most serious people will applaud your efforts). I found this type of accountability will remove procrastination in most instances. The reason is simple: the fear of losing 'face' is a more powerful than the internal mechanism that is making us procrastinate.

Freedom

One cannot be free unless he has control over himself. Whenever we are allowing our internal fears to control us, we are a slave. My entire existence is dedicated to the elimination of the chains that bind me. While it is easy to mention the external ones like a job working for someone else, the truth is that my own mind is my greatest jailer. Anything that I can do to overcome the obstacles it puts in my way helps to free me from bondage.

Procrastination steals time and energy away. I found that most actions take less than 30 minutes (in fact most less then 10 minutes). Yet, a person will put that activity off for days, dwelling upon it the entire time. The simple fact is that it is often easier to take action immediately and move on. This affords one the opportunity to utilize time as he or she sees fit.

Long term success is the result of a series of steps in a particular direction. Like DeNiro said," it took me 10 years to become an overnight sensation". Freedom is something that each of us needs to work for on a daily basis. Unfortunately, we are our own worst enemy in this pursuit. Of course, the advantage to that is we can do something about it. Overcome your personal limitation in an effort to achieve this end.

Start by kicking procrastination to the curb. Take a couple activities you are putting off, write them down, and go do them. Use one (or more) of the techniques above and watch your results increase immediately. This will help you break free from the bondage of procrastination.

Sunday, December 26, 2010

True Goals

This is the time of year when people actually give goal setting a chance. However, as we know from the experiences of those around or, perhaps, ourselves, most do it via the New Year's Resolution route. Unlike true goals, this is where someone has a wish for something to happen in the New Year coupled with a mediocre commitment to achieve it. This is where most fail before they ever get started. Instead of committing to the ends fully, they mentally give a half-hearted effort.

True Goals

Goal setting experts will tell you that a goal must be a few things to be effective. To start, it must be measurable (more is not quantifiable). It also needs to be a stretch outside your present level of comfort. It must be in the positive and it must have an end day.

For example losing more weight is not a goal since dropping 1 pound over 5 years would equate to success. If this is your intention from the start, I believe your standards are way too low. Goals should be something that motivates you to excel.

At the same time, we all know the saying that 'you do not see a UHaul behind a hearse'. Another way people phrase this is that 'you can't take it with you'. In other words we leave this world with what we entered it with: NOTHING. Accumulating all the toys, trinkets, and assets in the world will not change anything when we are dead. Everything anyone ever amassed was left behind.

Therefore, perhaps it is time to set some True Goals. Instead of concentrating on the amount of money you can earn, or the number of cars to own, maybe it is time to focus on experiences. It is a novel concept to many but this is in keeping with the minimalist thinking. Anyone who looked at this particular path knows that experiences are held dearer than things. Therefore, it is best to create some goals of this nature as opposed to the typical 'thing-based' goals.

The Ultimate List

John Goddard is a world famous adventures. Years ago he set out a list of 127 goals that are a bit different from the average list people put together. Follow the link to his site and take a look at what he put down. Notice how owning a ferrari, waterski, or condo in the mountains is nowhere on the list. In fact, there is nothing material on the list; it is all experiences.

To me, this is the ultimate goal list. I am reworking my list to model this somewhat. Now that I have altered my thinking, I realize what I focused upon all those years was not very fulfilling. My aim now is to be free to experience all that I can in life. Having a 'blueprint' is a terrific way to get started. How can one know where he or she is going if there is no plan of action? A goal list is a plan of action that one can follow.

Thus, in your time of reflection, start to think about what you can experience in the New Year as opposed to what you can get. Too often people write that they want to make X number of dollars. That is terrific if one knows the reasoning for that money. If it is just to sit in a bank and make one feel good about oneself, then it isn't very worthy. However, if this goal is to provide the resources to move one closer to a lifestyle of freedom by providing the basis of investment income, then that is something that will motivate someone.

Remember, in the end we all leave with nothing. Therefore, create a list of true goals that are rich in experiences. This is what we all should concentrate on in 2011.

Friday, December 24, 2010

Minimalist By Choice

I recently encountered a situation which really made me realize what is going on in my life. There are many who are minimalist not because they choose to but, rather, because that is the lot in life that was chosen for them. Of course, we all know there are those who should be minimalists based upon their income yet still want to live like royalty.

Over the last few days, I had a 'friend' on mine depart from my life. He ran his course down here and chose to move to his family up north. The reason why I bring this up is because he got on a plane with only 1 suitcase and a carry on bag. That is everything he has to show for his entire 50 years on this planet. It all fit in one bag.

Of course, you will say to me 'isn't that the goal'. How often do we read about people who are reducing their things down to a number below 100? A minimalist wants the freedom to be able to leave at any moment. Heck, one of my major premises is that freedom is the most important value in life and I seek it in all that I do.

Making A Conscious Decision

The difference between the people I just mentioned and my 'friend' is that one made a conscious choice while the other found himself in that position. There is an ocean between one who chooses to live a particular way and one who is a victim of circumstance. I will tell you that the individual I am referring to has no idea the concept of minimalism exists in any manner. His lack of choice makes him yearn from more.

A true minimalist understand why he or she is 'downsizing'. This is something that also separates one from the masses. Most operate for lack. A minimalist lives abundance. The departure from the norm is that a person of this ilk doesn't necessarily consider abundance to be materials. Therefore, the conscious choice to rid oneself of the unimportant is a step forward. Most of society, my 'friend' included, feel that it is a reversal.

The BIG Reason

Every minimalist has a BIG reason why he or she chose to pursue this particular life. In other words, these people can answer the question 'why'. My 'friend' cannot. He will provide a host of reasons that were responsible for his plight in life. He is a victim of circumstances. No matter what happens, someone else is responsible. A minimalist is one who makes decisions that lead down a particular path. The 'why' is the motivator which reveals a different set of priorities.

As I mentioned, my BIG reason is freedom. Stuff costs money. The more things I have, the larger the expenses to keep it going. For example, while my television is paid for, it requires a hefty monthly cable bill to keep running. Of course, there is electricity that also is needed to operate this device. And to complete the trifecta, this device does nothing more than waste time. I found there are other ways to utilize my time that yield greater dividends.

Expenses limit freedom. The same is true for having to 'take care' of all my stuff. It needs to be polished, cleaned, ironed, filed, sorted, etc... By eliminating the excess I found that I no longer needed to take care of the items. Again, it is another path to freedom. Financial is just one aspect of it; time is another. When I gain back time to do more productive activities, I break the chains of the 'have tos'.

Therefore, the big question is 'why'. This is where the conscious choice comes in. Behind every decision to pursue this avenue is a BIG reason why someone is doing it. My 'friend' had no reason. He allowed circumstances to determine his path. He was lacking while a conscious minimalist is coming from a place of abundance. Each item I remove from my life, or better yet, resist the temptation to purchase, the more money I have for other means and the less I need to 'take care of'. This is why I chose the minimalist path....because it is laying the foundation to me living a totally free life.

Thursday, December 23, 2010

Important Vs. Unimportant

The minimalist lifestyle comes down to this simple premise. While many refer to needs vs. wants, I think it is even a more personal experience. Sure, we as human beings have certain needs. If it was a matter of simply identifying what is needed, I could eliminate almost everything in the house. Certainly I don't need a coffee mug since I really do not need coffee to live. In fact, if I were so inclined, I only need the basics in nutrition to remain alive and water. Everything else in my house is a luxury.

Naturally, I am not opting to follow this course of action. Therefore, when I think about the transformation over the last few weeks, I am realizing that getting rid of the unimportant is making time for the important. The shedding of Netflix is a prime example. At one time in my life I thought I needed cable. I shuddered each time I imagined going without television. Since the beginning of the year, I am cable-free. Netflix was a great assistant in making this a reality. Now, I decided I can forgo this service also.

In the last week, I found that the old habit of turning on the idiot box was still with me. However, since it wasnt connected to a service, the television was not turned on. This left me with a great deal of time. And, that my friends, is the crux of the situation: what do I do with this new found time? The obvious answer is to focus upon the important.

This revelation is tied to something else that I noticed. Whenever I look at my life and the actions that are in it, I have a tough time determining what is important. As mentioned, I once thought some type of television service was important. It is not. Now, I am faced with the challenge of really establishing what is truly important in my life.

I have full confidence I will uncover the deeper levels of this exercise over the next week. Presently, I am undergoing a 'plan of action' exercise to establish my road map for the next 12 months. It is a truly beneficial experience for me and helping me to concentrate upon the important vs unimportant. My goal is to eliminate the waste in my life. Everything is subject to review. Getting to the core of what is going on is crucial to me.

Do you know what is truly important in your life? Most will say they do and, perhaps, that is true. However, do their actions reflect it. Many will say health is important to them as they are carrying around 25, 50, or 100 extra pounds. Here we see the actions not matching up with the values. Therefore, is it really high on the list of important factors.

Congruent living is another thing that I am seeking. As a seeker of freedom, I am faced with the prospect of matching my actions with this outcome. That is my present quest. Eliminating all that is truly unimportant to me is a component that sets me on the proper path. The unimportant is truly only a distraction. If I really don't value it, why have it? The answer is becoming obvious to me.

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Traditions

It is amazing how quickly the mindset changes when one adopts the minimalist outlook. Here, it is not even a month since I started this journey and yet I see such a radical change in how I perceive things. While there are some hard choices coming down the chute, I realize that my mindset is what will carry me through.

Xmas time is approaching and I find myself thinking about what a waste of time a lot of this is. Now, dont get me wrong. I know there are people of faith who take this time of year very serious since it is central to their mindset. However, there are so many who do not fit into this category.

I noticed an interesting thing the other day. My mom sent me a check for Xmas since I never tell her what I want. Hell, anything she would buy me most likely would end up in the recycle pile. Cash is something that I can always use. However, there was an interesting situation that arose.

My mom sent me $150. That was very nice of her and I do appreciate it. In return, I purchased her a nice wooden statue of a cat. She likes them and I think it will look nice at her house. Also, since my daughter is driving, I am giving her money for Xmas to help her offset some bills. When I totaled all of it up, it was a wash. What I took in is what I gave out.

Now, I know the holidays are not a time to profit. My point is why go through all the complication of the process. Why didnt my mom just send my daughter the money, buy herself the cat, and avoid the middle man (me) altogether? Yeah, I know, this isnt the spirit of Xmas.

But this got me thinking at a deeper level. How much of our lives is dictated by tradition? Why do we do things every year without even considering how they were done? Because we, as a rule, are a lazy population. Questioning is something that children do but adults are broken of that habit. The indoctrination into society includes buying into the traditions that are established for us. So,we blindly follow without thought of how insane our behavior is.

Thus, I understand the foolishness of this Xmas tradition. Giving gifts is wonderful in many instances. Yet, in my case, I was simply following blind tradition. Now I am aware of it. Does that mean I am going to stop in the future? Not necessarily since I know the expectation is there on the part of others. Nevertheless, it is the awareness that is important. From here on any time I adhere to this tradition I do so with my eyes open. If I opt to follow it, that is on me.

Look at the traditions that you obey like a dog. I am sure there are many that you never questioned. Uncovering these helps to locate those areas where we give power over to others. Freedom cannot exist without this awareness.

Monday, December 20, 2010

Physical Freedom

Have you ever pondered how your physical shape limits your freedom? I have recently and it terrified me how enslaved I am. And, you need to consider the fact that I am in better shape physically than 90% of the people out there. Yet, I still understand how my lack of physical abundance is limiting.

Distance

How far could you walk if you had to? Actually, let me rephrase this: how far could you walk if you wanted to? For most people the answer is 'not very far'. The simple truth is the western world is out of shape. We have the largest population in terms of waistline in the history of mankind. We are seeing developed nations with obesity rates hovering around 50%. That means 1 in 2 people is at risk health wise. And, please bear in mind that someone who is obese isnt a person who needs to loose 20 or 30 pounds. We are talking about people who are carrying around an extra 100 pounds or so. This is a catastrophic situation that few are paying attention to.

Nevertheless, I am not here to solve the country's ills. I know that the majority of people live like brainless robots. They follow the crowd right into the jail. Whatever the public is promoting, that is what these fools are gobbling up. In this instance, it is literal.

Get back to my initial question, we know how our physical state affects all areas of our lives. Those who ail physically are unable to achieve things in other areas of life. The emotions are directly linked to how we feel. Thus, whenever we feel bad, we are sabotaging our chance of success.

At the same time, there is a tremendous world out there to see. However, few have the ability to see it unless it comes across the internet. Few people have the stamina to hike all day to see an out of the way monument. Nor can they make the trek 5 miles into the woods to see nature in all it's glory. Whatever the reason, the fact that people cannot walk further than their mailbox is a sacrifice of one's freedom.

Resolving to be Free

My driving passion is to be free in my life. I examine all areas in an effort to create structures which will allow me to move towards this end. Therefore, when I realized how debilitating my physical limitations are, I realized how it needed changing immediately.

As many of you know, I love photography. It is a hobby that I picked up over the last year or so. I am also blessed that within an hour of my house there are a plethora of national and state parks which to walk. Along these trails one sees nature undisturbed. It is something that I enjoy.

However, the fact that I had approximately a three mile limit means that I am unable to pursue this endeavor as much as I would like. This places a limitation on me. Of course, in my mind, that is self imposed slavery. The fact that I cannot walk 10 miles uninterrupted is nobody's fault but my own. My laziness constructed this prison in my life. The only way out is to remove it through serious exercise. That is what I committed to do.

90 Day Commitment

Over the next three months, I committed to walking every single day no matter what. A radical shift in my activity is required to break me out of this quagmire. That is what I decided to do. I started it before the new year, almost in tandem with the start of Winter. So, basically, by Spring, I plan to have a radically different outlook.

As I was determining what I would do, I opted to forgo the traditional goal setting method and instead focus upon a plan of action. I want something that is under my realm. This stems from the personal value that my life is my responsibility. Dedicating efforts upon those things which are out of my reach is asinine. Ergo, I am opting for action and letting the results fall where they may.

My plan is simple...walk everyday for the next 90 days starting at a distance of 2.5 miles and working my way up towards the 5 mile mark. I will accomplish this by increasing the pace I do it in while lengthening it incrementally. At the same time, I also committed to snacking on celery, broccoli, and carrots as opposed to other nutrition free snacks. Finally, I am going to stretch each day to increase my flexibility since that is another way that one can be physically limited.

I detest not being free in any area of my life and the fact that I am faced with this challenge is exciting to me. Any time I can break a chain that is holding me down, the better I feel. Freedom is something that we all have to fight for on a daily basis. Those who willing accept what society offers soon find themselves enslaved. The way out of this trap is to fight with complete vigor the second you realize something is holding you captive. For me, in this instance, it is my physical state. Now, I am doing something to alter that.

And, while we are at it, how is your physical state? Perhaps you are captive also.

Friday, December 17, 2010

Because I Own It

Yesterday, in the post titled Saving For A Rainy Day, I listed a reason why pack rats hold onto things. The mindset that 'I might need this' means people hold on a large quantity of stuff that they end up rarely using. I pointed out in the post that often people can replace those items at minimal cost if the need should arise.

Next on the list of excuses is the 'because I own it' idea. This is another reasoning mechanism that leads people to hold onto things which should be discarded. There are millions of closets full of items which have not been touched in years. Yet individuals continue to hold onto them as if their life depends upon it. This is another concept that I shed as I embarked upon the journey into minimalism.

Here is the simple truth: just because an item is paid for, that does not mean that you should hold onto it. This statement is accurate whether we are referring to minimal or a large expense. Whatever the cost, that money is spent. While one might not make that purchase today with the new minimalist outlook, the fact that he or she is holding onto something that is paid for is equally inane.

"Because I own it" is not a valid reason for keeping something. The only reason is "Because I use it". Items that sit idle in a closet are only taking up space. The value was lost the second you left the store. Recouping it can only occur by selling it. Besides, if you aren't using it, why not give it to someone who will.

Being a minimalist means that we only hold onto items that are definitely used. Anything else is just taking up valuable space and energy. If it falls into the later category, then it must go. This is another step in the process of taking back one's freedom.

Communal Living

The mention of this term evokes images during the hippie movement in the United States in the late 60's and early 70s. People 'dropped out' by moving to remote locations called communes. In these communities, the idea of personal property vanished and was replaced with the concept of sharing. If you need something, just take it. Clothing, rooms, even lovers were all part of the community. Everyone pitched in for the benefit of the community.

Not So Far-Fetched

If you ask the average person about the communes and the idea of communal living, they would tell you that is was an idea practiced by immoral sex freaks and has no basis in a civilized society. While I will grant the notion of 20 or 30 couples living together is extreme, there is a certain validity to the mindset. Also, while I am not sure of the practicality of it with such a large group, I will show that it is something that is in keeping with the minimalist mindset.

Sharing resources is nothing new. Most people understand how there are times when it is best to combine 'forces' for maximum benefit. We see this both at the personal and business level. In fact, I argue that communal living is a common part of society.

Divorce-The Path To Poverty

The last 20 years witnessed a massive explosion in the divorce rate. At the same time, the poverty level has jumped to historic proportions. While I am not going to claim that the poverty rate is exclusively caused by the divorce rate, I will maintain that it has a part to do with it. If you understand the financial impact on people in this arena, you will see how it goes against the communal living idea.

If we remember, the basic tenet of communal living is sharing of resources. What happens within a marriage? All assets are shared between the individuals (called a family). Therefore, two people are responsible for only one household. There is one rent/mortgage payment, electric bill, and cable provider. In short, you have two incomes going towards one set of bills. All resources are shared between the individuals.

This is the common way the majority of western society lives. Of course, with divorce, we see the exact opposite happen. Now, instead of two incomes going towards one set of bills, the divorced couple assumes two sets of bills since they are in two different households. Suddenly, everything is doubled. What was once a comfortable standard of living now becomes a struggle for at least one party (if not both). The financial resources are split.

When we look at those impoverished, it is common to find single mothers occupying this space. They are the ones who are hit the hardest since they have to maintain a home while depending upon child support or other benefits in many instances. The fact that two incomes arent available makes it impossible to get ahead. This is the plight of the average divorcee in this era.

Minimalism Is The Answer

Before I get into the concept of communal living as I see it, I want to make a point about the average person we just mentioned. Now, please bear in mind that I am not 'picking' on the downtrodden as much as showing the mentality which is so prevalent in our culture (it exists among the middle class also).

People simply have too much stuff. They assume financial obligations without thinking about the long term merits of their actions. The simple truth is that most people in this country do not realize what 'poverty' really is. Anyone who traveled to lands such as Ethiopia or Haiti knows exactly what I am referring to. The United States, and most western cultures, have an incredible standard of living in comparison even on the low end. People here are worried about what to get the children for Xmas while starvation is rampant in many parts of the world.

Therefore, I assert we simply over indulge. The minimalist mindset will help to eliminate a great deal of poverty. For example, I believe that most 'poor' households have cable television. Why does someone who is making $12,000-$18,000 pay over $100 a month for a service like this? The answer is because they believe they are entitled to it. Well, I have news for you. It is possible to live without cable television. Eliminating this single expenditure can recoup almost 10% of these people's income. How do you think that will affect them?

Alas, this is something that most people never consider. It is beyond the comprehension of the average American to live without this service. And, that is why most are destined to remain enslaved. Freedom is for those who approach things differently. A minimalist mindset is what allows one to make the proper decisions.

Shared Housing

Once you realize how important it is to become a minimalist, one then sees how communal living is a practical avenue to pursue. While I acknowledge that establishing 'hippie-type' communes is not rational for most, I will assert that all should look at sharing resources. Besides, it is already something that most people do within the confines of marriage. Why not simply extend this idea outwards?

Before answering that, I will state that again we see the 'entitlement' mentality enter the picture. Many seem to believe they are entitled to their own place. We often hear a statement such as 'I value my privacy' as a reason for living alone. This mindset causes people to forgo their freedom. It is what straps people financially while enslaving them. Trust me when I tell your privacy is costing you tens of thousands of dollars.

It is not uncommon to see an single individual or couple in a two or three bedroom house. In this instance, it is up to that person to cover all the bills. While one has rationalization for living in this manner, the truth is that a fortune is wasted. But that is the American mindset.

What are the options in this instance. The first is to downsize to a single bedroom apartment. However, in many instances this is impractical. So what is another way for one to rectify this problem. In short, applying the idea of communal living is the answer. If this person (couple) brought in another to live under the same roof while sharing expenses, they would be a lot better off. Yet, as was mentioned, few ever consider the possibility.

Let us use as an example $1,000 in rent or mortgage. If this is something that one has to lay out on his/her own, then the total expenditure is 12,000 a year. Throw in cable, electric, and water and you can easily run up a tab of $15,000. In many instances this accounts for a large percentage of an individuals take home pay.

Now, let us move another individual into the picture. The same expenditures exist at the same rate with a few increasing because of a second person. For example, you might see a minimal increase in the water and electric due to additional usage. However, the rent/mortgage payment and the cable remain the same. So, let us say the additional person add $1,000 to the total annual tab, we now have $16,000. Yet, because there are two people paying the bills, each person is responsible for $8,000. This is a savings of $7,000 a year.

Of course, this is something that is fairly common within the United States. We see many who have roommates to help share expenses. However, I am trying to emphasize freedom through a minimalist mindset. So, we go one step further.

Coupling Up

This is an idea that really makes the above example turn on its head. There are many couples who move in together as a way to share resources (and yes they have other reasons for it). Nevertheless, this situation will see the two people share expense while living in a two bedroom house or apartment. While they are much better off than the single person in the same situation, they are far from realizing freedom. This can be done by cutting things even more.

How can this be done? Simply by adding another couple to the living arrangement. Now, instead of 2 people sharing the expenses, there are 4. Thus, each person's obligation is reduced even further (to $4,000). Couples who live with other couples under the same roof are able to exert tremendous economies of scale over the basic living expenses. Of course, this does mean one will give up some of his/her privacy.

Communal living is a economic goldmine. It is a way for people to minimize the impact of the basics in life. We all need shelter; it is something that we cannot live without. However, it often makes up the largest portion of a person's budget. By reducing it down as much as possible, one is able to enjoy a financial windfall. How do you think your life would change if you made $30,000 while having to pay $4,000 for your overhead? Suddenly, you have a fair bit of money to invest as a means of garnering more financial freedom.

Communal living is something that we will see this country get back to. In the 'olden' days, generations of families were housed under the same roof. All pitched in for the common good. Somewhere along the way we lost that idea. The entitlement and 'more' mentality set in. Now people are paying for those choices. The insight provided here will assist you along your path. There is not reason why you should bear the full burden simple because society tells you to 'live alone'. Communal living has many practical benefits which we all should explore.

Thursday, December 16, 2010

Saving For A Rainy Day


This is the mantra for pack rat that justifies keeping an insane amount of stuff. The way people behave, you would think they were all part of the boy scouts: always prepared. No matter what the circumstance, one wants to be ready. Of course, as I found out, this is in direct opposition to the minimalist mindset.

As I was embarking upon my journey, I realized that I had a lot of stuff that fit into the 'in case' category. What I mean is that I had a ton of items I didnt need but hung onto on the off chance I might need them. Naturally, this led to a lot of space in my life being taken up.

An example was tonight when we were going through a basket. We uncovered a multitude of bottles of sample size shampoos and conditioners that the hotels give you free when you stay. When I asked, the response was, I keep them in case we go away. Well slap me twice and call me Suzie. This is insanity if I ever saw it.

Needless to say, I can tell you what shampoo is going to be used first in our house. The truth of the matter is that my life is focused upon creating freedom, thus some options were put on the back burner. In the next year, a trip to Europe is not on the agenda. Therefore, the need for travel size shampoo and conditioner (I am bald by the way) isnt going to be necessary. We will use them up and be done with that concept.

This is not uncommon. I am finding a bunch of stuff that falls into the same category. The sad part of this is that many items are replaced for a minor outlay of money. Honestly, if we were to travel tomorrow, how much would a bottle of shampoo cost? A couple of bucks. Besides, if we stay at a decent motel, there will be more of the sample size bottles there.

And that is the lesson. Why retain things that are easily replaced at a minimal cost. I understand that getting rid of things is wasteful. However, sitting unused in a closet is not the best use of something either. Get rid of it. I find that many of the items I am tossing, if the need for them should come up, I can run to the hardware store and buy the items needed. It isnt a big deal.

Of course, this concept is baffling to the pack rats. That is why most are held hostage by their stuff. They cannot envision life absent of a closet full of stuff. To a person of this ilk, no matter what happens, they will be prepared. As a minimalist, I would rather be free from the burden of all that stuff and buy it if the need should arise. Consider this when you come across something that you 'might' need. My philosophy is that might means get rid of it. Unless I am certain I am going to use it, it goes.

From this point forward, there are no rainy days to prepare for.

Monday, December 13, 2010

One Gone

I wrote last week how I made the decision to cancel my Netflix account. While this wasnt a major expense, going to $9.95 a month, it was one that is not in the category of a necessity. Watching television is a luxury which we do not need. It is a brainless way to entertain myself what I realize there are many other more productive uses for my time.

Therefore, as of this moment, I canceled the account thus eliminating another monthly payment. As we all know, those payments can add up. Taking control of one's budget is crucial if he or she ever wants to be free. This is another link in the slavery chain that I broke shed. Damn it feels good.

Sunday, December 12, 2010

Time and Money

The free and slaves look at time and money differently. In short, people at each end of the spectrum have a different priority. Understanding this difference will assist you on your path towards freedom. Part of the process is to duplicate that which free people do.

Time For Money

Welcome to the life of 95% of the people in the western (and I am sure the eastern) world. This is a fundamental concept that people were taught from a young age which leads to total slavery. Individuals who follow this dogma can never attain any type of freedom. It is a life that is filled with imprisonment.

The concept that enslaves these people is trading time for money. Society is built upon this protocol. Everyone is told from a young age to 'get a job'. Sadly, the ones offering the advice are slaves themselves but do not realize it. Thus starts the inter-generational slavery that is so prevalent in our culture. One slave passes along the bondage to his/her offspring. It is a wonderful system for those in control.

This concept is effective because of the value people have. Few realize how valuable time is. Instead, they place money higher up on the scale of things they hold dear. Consumerism feeds the belief by promoting the definition of success. The net result is that even when people make more money, they are just as poor. Remember, it is not so important how much comes in as opposed to what goes out. Yet people still value money greatly.

The Free

Does everyone follow this idea? The answer is no. There are many people who place their priorities in a different order. Most will acknowledge that money is important. However, the free opt to place time higher up the scale then money. Instead of trading time for money, these people trade money for time.

The other night we were out walking and looking at the Xmas decorations. I am certain if we had been out on a Saturday afternoon a couple of weeks before, we would see homeowners hanging their lights, wreaths, etc... This is an annual ritual all over suburbia America. Everyone knows it occurs with most participating. It is 'normal'.

My question is how long does it take to hang Xmas lights? We can safely presume a couple of hours. Therefore, millions of homeowners spend anywhere from 2-5 hours decorating their properties for Xmas and a similar amount of time taking them down after the New Year.

Do you think this is something that Brad Pitt does? Can you picture him standing outside his mansion on a ladder tacking up Xmas lights? While there is a chance this might happen, I find the odds are against it. Why? Simply because a man like Brad Pitt exchanges money for time. He is not going to sacrifice 5 hours of his life when he can pay a few hundred to have it done (or maybe thousand depending on the number of lights). The time that would be spent on this task is recouped by paying someone else to do it.

Balance

Many will believe I just told them to hire out all the chores around the house. This is not the case. If you read any of my previous posts, you know that economical living is a high priority for me. However, I needed to illustrate the concept to you so that you realize how enslaved you really are.

The free approach life in a far different way than the average person. When you really consider it, time is the most valuable resource there is. We can always make more money. You can never recoup lost time. Once it is gone, that is it. Brad Pitt knows this...do you? If you are exchanging 40 hours a week at a job you detest solely because of the check you receive at the end of the week (or every other week), then that is something to take a look at. You are living according to the time for money concept.

Therefore, if you want to break free, it is crucial that you begin to transform your mindset to the money for time. What are you wilingl to trade off to get more time? Of course, I am not suggesting you go and spend money elsewhere. Hell, if you are like the average person, you need to focus upon not spending. But, by implementing the minimalist mindset, you are adopting the money for time mentality.

Using the Xmas lights as an example, instead of hanging them yourself and spending that time, you could simply opt not to put them up. I know that thought is outlandish to some of you. But, once again we come to the point as to why are you putting them up? Is it something you enjoy or do you do it to appease others? If it is the later, then you are behaving as a slave.

The truth is elimination often takes care of both time and money, thus increasing both. If we dont have to spend it, then, theoretically, we dont need to earn it. Also, without buying it, then the time spent engage in that activity is regained. It is a win-win.

Freedom is all about spending time the way you prefer. In the above example, if you are one who loves hanging Xmas lights with the family, then by all means do it. However, do not blindly engage in a behavior without asking about it first. Freedom is something that is fought for on a daily basis. And, it is a battle that starts within your head. Understanding the time/value relation and how your value of each affects all that you do is a good beginning. Consider this concept in depth while looking at your life. I believe you will really be awakened at what you find.

Friday, December 10, 2010

Minimalist Principle: 80/20 Rule

Part of the idea of being a minimalist is to succeed in life with the minimal amount of resources utilized. Most often this applies to physical things. One of the first steps in my entry into this life was to declutter by going through all my things and scaling down. This process allowed me to free myself mentally, emotionally, and physically of the excesses in my life. I immediately felt freer as a result of this method.

Another area that the minimalist mindset applies is in terms of effort. Here is where the 80/20 principle comes into play. Anyone who is unfamiliar with this idea is missing one of the keys to life. In its simplest form, the 80/20 rule mandates that 80% of our results comes from 20% of our efforts. Of course, this principle can be expanded to all areas of life.

80/20-Focus

Focus is one of the things we must learn how to control. The 80/20 rule offers us an outline of where we need to place our attention. Consider this depth of this idea for a moment. 80% of the results come from 20% of our actions. By definition, that means that only 80% of our actions net us 20% of our outcomes. Therefore, we want to concentrate our minds upon the things that get us the most benefit.

In other words, we are seeking to maximize our return. In business, according to this rule, 80% of the profits will come from 20% of our customer base. Thus, we want to cater our efforts to this part of our customer list. The same is true in our relationships. 20% of our efforts will garner the most impact with our loved ones. 80% of all that we do has minimal impact.

As you can see, this concept holds up in all circumstances. What about you clothing? Do you find that you wear the same items regularly while some articles are only pulled our once or twice a year? If you are like most people who follow this principle, that is the fact. Therefore, we might be able to eliminate 80% of our wardrobe with minimal impact.

Time Management

Time management is a crucial skill we all need to hone. The truth is that time is the recourse each person is allocated equally. No matter what you status in life, we all get 24 hours a day. That does not change regardless of who you are. Donald Trump, with his billions, get the same number of minutes as the homeless person. The difference is what each of us does with the time.

The 80/20 rule enables us to focus upon those activities which have the greatest payoff. Eliminating all the 'busy work' helps us to forge a more profitable life. Those who seek freedom need to take control of his/her time so as to maximize the efforts. Most people wake up each day to go to a job they despise so as to pay their bills. The financial slavery most operate under as a result of their spending means they do not have choice of how to allocate their time.

What makes this matter even worse is that most waste many of their hours at work on senseless activities. This is done in an effort to appease the boss and protect one's place within the organization. No sane manager would fire anyone who is continually busy. The truth is that 80% of the actions could be immediately eliminated without much consequence to the company. Nevertheless, we will never see this happen in the corporate world.

As a seeker of freedom, you can approach things in a different way. Knowing and applying this principle frees you to pursue matters how you see fit. What is most important to you in life? Answer this question and spend the majority of your time in pursuit of this. That is the key to fulfillment. The highly successful know this principle intimately.

Waste

It is a startling revelation to learn that 80% of our efforts are basically wasted. The key to the minimalist mindset is to eliminate all waste in one's life. Excess is a part of all of our lives. Reducing our lives to the minimal means we are free to concentrate the important things. Plus, we have a greater incentive to appreciate that which remains.

Consumerism is the archenemy of freedom. We all have spent money (another valuable resource) on things that weren't essential. After the purchase, we place the item in a closet only to uncover it when we go through the declutter process. In short, we wasted money and closet space on something that need not be purchased in the first place.

If we carry this concept in all we do, we can see how our efforts are instantly empowered. Freedom is achieved by shedding the excess and only engaging in that which is important. The 20% is where our success and happiness lies. Spending the majority of our time on these tasks streamlines our lives. We enjoy greater fulfillment, more success, and increased happiness while reducing the effort spent to get there. This is the power of the 80/20 rule.

Apply this concept to every area of your life. Here we see minimalism in effort net physical results.